LIVE WORKSHOP

You're drowning in decisions that aren't even yours.

Your aging parents need you to research their medical options. Your boss can't make a simple choice without your input. Your partner wants you to figure out the vacation plans. Your friends ask you to help them decide everything from career moves to what to wear.

And meanwhile, when it comes to YOUR life? You're paralyzed. Frozen between the "perfect" choice and the fear of making the wrong one.

"I spent three hours researching the best dishwasher for my parents, but I can't decide what to make for dinner. I'm so tired of being everyone's decision consultant while my own life is stuck in analysis paralysis."

Here's what I know about you:

→ You're not indecisive - you have decision fatigue from carrying everyone else's choices

→ You research everything to death because you can't bear the thought of letting people down

→ Your self-care disappears because you're too busy managing everyone else's life

→ You tell yourself you're procrastinating, but really you're just making way too many decisions every single day

→ People depend on you to "figure it out" and you can't say no without feeling guilty

→ You have high standards and perfectionist tendencies that make even small choices feel massive

→ You tell yourself you're avoidant when you're really just overwhelmed by the sheer volume of decisions on your plate

You’ve handled much bigger things. So why does this decision feel so hard?

It’s not you—it’s decision fatigue. And when we’re in it, logic alone won’t get us out.
This workshop will help.

The secret to making decisions quickly instead of researching everything to death is simple:

You learn my 3-step system that might seem counterintuitive.

This is not talk therapy. This is not another decision-making framework. This is a practical method that works with your body's wisdom instead of against it.

Here's what most people don't understand: You're not broken. The system is.

Here's How I Did It (and you can too):

I stopped trying to be the "responsible one" who had to research every option for everyone else. I realized the problem wasn't that I was bad at decisions - it's that I was drowning in the gendered expectations that women who are parents and caregivers face every single day.

I discovered a 3-step method that helps me cut through the overwhelm and make choices from a place of clarity instead of exhaustion:

Step 1: Understand the real problem (and it's not you) - it's the gendered time expectations women who are parents and caregivers experience in the world

Step 2: Ground yourself and your energy so you can do step 3 (and also outwit the system that does not want you in yourself)

Step 3: Learn how to use a pendulum to bypass your overthinking brain and tap into your body's wisdom for instant clarity

Now I make choices quickly and confidently. I don't research every option to death. And I've reclaimed hours of my time each week that I used to spend managing other people's decisions.

While most decision-making advice suggests you need "better systems" or "more information"...

...this approach doesn't work for caregivers who are already drowning in everyone else's needs.

So if you've been trying productivity methods and decision frameworks but you're still overwhelmed, it's not your fault. It's because the system expects women to be decision-makers for everyone, while having no time or energy left for their own choices.

You don't need better decision-making skills. You need to outwit a system that's designed to keep you exhausted and disconnected from yourself.

INSIDE POWERFUL DECISIONS IN A SNAP you get:

• The Real Problem Revealed: Why the gendered expectations of caregiving are sabotaging your decision-making (and it's not your fault)

• The Grounding Method: How to get back into your body and energy so you can think clearly

• Pendulum Decision-Making: The surprisingly simple tool that bypasses overthinking and connects you to instant clarity

• System-Outsmarting Strategies: How to protect your decision-making energy in a world that wants to extract it from you

• On-demand video recorded: If you can't make it, watch it during your lunch break (less than 60 minutes total)

"Debbie is a visionary in the truest sense of the word— and I believe her capacity to envision and steer toward the kind of future we haven't experienced yet is needed now more than ever. With deep care and respect for others, a dedication to justice throughout her work, and an infectious ability to lean into play and laughter, Debbie creates spaces that are fun, authentic, generative, and deeply meaningful. Her artwork is also such a rich and engaging gift for anyone who gets to receive it. I’m so excited for her Honor, Express, Reclaim Circle to begin!"— Lori Rose | Founder.